The Foundational Stones Plan
Few stones, clearly laid. A home built to hold your family.
Not standalone — lives inside Decode Your Child / Code Your Child, after your approval.
The practical heart of the journey
- 1 to 3 priorities — never everything at once.
- A handful of small changes, each with an owner and a when.
- A protect-list — what already works and must not be disturbed.
- Qualitative markers — movement you can feel, not scores.
- Phased living — lived a fortnight, reviewed, refined.
What it is not
- Not a checklist to complete, not a renovation of your life.
- Not a diet chart, not a verdict on your family.
- No scores, no labels. No finding — no stone. Every stone is built only from what you approved.
Every stone has four faces
The one small thing that moves — plainly put.
Why this change matters for your family — in your words.
The owner — P1, P2, both, or the household. Never vague.
This fortnight — a rhythm you can actually keep.
Evening wind-down 9:30 · Because steady sleep steadies mornings · Who: both parents · When: this fortnight. Fridge-pin it — a ~5-minute read for the whole home.
How the stones land
For the family with a child 5–11
For the couple preparing
Owned distinctly — P1, P2, both, or the household.
Lived, reviewed, kept
Lived a fortnight, then reviewed together — what rooted, what wobbled, what got stuck — then refined into v1, the version you keep at close.
Fridge-ready, then v1
What you hold: a fridge-ready ~5-minute read during the journey, and v1 — your kept stones — at close. No separate enrolment; the plan travels inside your journey.
One issue, not a foundation? Read about Focused Support — a different door, never the same as the Stones Plan.
Quick answers
Is the Stones Plan advice I must follow?
No. Every stone is built only from what you approved in your decode or assessment — and refined with you at each review. No finding, no stone.
How many stones will we have?
Few — 1 to 3 priorities and a handful of small changes. A protect-list guards what already works. Less, held well, beats more, dropped.
What if we cannot keep a stone?
Then the review says so honestly — rooted, wobbling, or stuck — and we refine it into a version you can keep. A stuck stone is information, not failure.
Who owns each stone?
A named owner — P1, P2, both, or the household. Nothing belongs vaguely to “the family”; everything belongs to someone, with a when.
How is this different from a Focus Plan?
A Focus Plan (Focused Support) holds 2–5 actions for one named issue, standalone. The Stones Plan is the foundation across life domains, living inside a full Decode or Code journey — never the same thing, never abbreviated FSP.
Can I enrol in the Stones Plan alone?
No — there is no separate enrolment. The plan is built inside Decode Your Child or Code Your Child, after you approve your decode or assessment.
Few stones, clearly laid. A home built to hold your family.
Decode Your Child / Code Your Child · A Little’s Guide journey · Designed by Mukesh Bhatt, The Constitutional Guide · Delivered with the Little’s Guide team, Surat
The stones are laid inside your journey — after you approve.
Talk to us about the journey that holds the stones — Decode for parents, Code for couples planning ahead.